Anonymous asked: Dear Sir, My boyfriend has shyly expressed an interest in Daddy/Little Girl. However he is cautious about asking for it outright for fear of scaring me away. Would you please help me? I want to learn how to be a proper Little Girl, even if it is for one night. I wish to be good enough; I want him to really enjoy this surprise for our upcoming anniversary. Please and thank you. I appreciate this.
Not sure I can help - but not being anonymous is a start! My kitten also is a great place to ask - but also not being anonymous is needed…..
Anonymous asked: How does someone find a Daddy? How do I know if he will actually treat me right? --something like what you have with your Babygirl.
It takes time and a lot of regular conversations. Our relationship is really also quite normal - we are compatible as a couple. We have similar likes and tastes in many things and not just sex or the lifestyle. You may also want to ask Babygirl - she may have a better understanding of your fears. Follow her too if you haven’t at http://daddys-best-babygirl.tumblr.com/
I am more than happy to help where I can - but you will get better insight on that question from her.
Anonymous asked: How does a girl become a baby girl?
Thanks for the question anon………the first part is knowing that you want to explore the submissive side of your sexuality. By asking this question you have taken an important first step so feel good about that!
The best thing I can recommend for someone like yourself is to read and research the Daddy/Babygirl lifestyle - a lot. In other words, don’t rush it. This could be a terrible mistake and will likely only lead to pain and ultimate avoidance of the lifestyle altogether. Know what type of Daddy/dom you want to find and don’t accept anything less.
The second step is to find others, like you have found me, that participate in the lifestyle and ask questions, participate in discussions and even start a Babygirl blog that reflects who you are. An important thing to answer for yourself is whether you want an online relationship, a physical relationship or both.
Finally - BE CAREFUL! There are many like yourself who want to explore and experience the life of a sub/Babygirl and take the first Daddy/dom who comes along. Unfortunately many of these ‘men’ (and I call them men only because of their physical anatomy and not because they act like one) believe that being a Daddy/dom means that they have the right to be mean, degrading or physically harm their sub. RULES ARE IMPORTANT before any relationship you are thinking about getting into. These rules should outline what is expected from both of you and what is off limits.
Thanks again for asking - and I think that this is a good place for you to start. Feel free to let me know how things are going for you or if any other questions come up.